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Making friends?
Posted 2022-05-04 22:32:38 (edited)
I kinda wanted to get this off my chest but I also wanted to see if there are people in this game who feel the same way.

I've been around games like wolveden, these types of games always draw me in but what keeps me from sticking to them for long periods of time is the communities associated with them. I'm not saying they're bad, oh no haha! Infact it's sort of the opposite. Usually, the communities of these types of games are very welcoming the problem to me lays underneath it.
For me I find it very difficult to weave my way into the community, I feel left out and often times really lonely even when max people are online. These communities end up being so tight nit that it's hard for a beginner to really feel like they actually belong or at least get noticed. I keep to myself a lot and I know that that's on me, I'm fully aware that my socially awkward self is usually the problem. But there is always that lurking pain in just feeling left behind in a game full of kind players and social butterflies.

Goodness, I hope I didn't make this too long, but I just wanted to put my two cents in. I'm hoping I'm not the only one who feels that away, if it turns out I am..well I'd feel pretty awkward.

Seacat
#62481

Posted 2022-05-05 08:26:26
Hellooo ^-^ I know exactly how you feel, I stick to myself and don't generally talk to anyone unless I despratly need help with something wolvden related. I've been active on this site since launch and have yet to actually have a full on conversation with anyone.

As you said, Wolvden's community is really great and the short interactions with other players have always been rewarding. It's just a matter of getting involved and forcing yourself out there, (which you just did //your post definitely not too long btw) and talking to some people who have a weird obsession with wolves.

I'm extremely anti-social irl, not so much online but either way my advice is probably bad. I'd just say don't be afraid to get involved, nothing bad can come of it c:

Solkryn
#3121

Posted 2022-05-05 12:21:45
aw thank you for the advice I really appreciate it :.) I am glad I'm not the only one. Yeah it takes me some time to actually think of what to say when introducing myself or at least coming up with something to talk about. The community is very welcoming and I love the fact that in them there are very patient people too.

Seacat
#62481

Posted 2022-05-05 12:30:20
Sup' ah get wut yer both goin through, ah kindda learned ta just wadge meself in, ah've learned o'er time that everyone 'ere is pretty chill, unlike other sites, ye can randomly pop up into threads (like this one) an not get screamed at, but ah get wut ya mean Seacat, despite the welcomin allures of a rose, there are hidden thorns, but it doesn't mean ya shouldn't at least try ta pm a couple users yea?

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