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I'm demi, and proud!

I'm demi, and proud!
Posted 2023-06-02 16:37:45
Yeah, I don't talk much on here, but this is something I needed to get off my chest. I am proud to say that I identify as demi! For awhile I thought maybe I was aroace, but over time I had time to reflect and do my own research on a-spec identities, and I would consider myself demisexual! I am not officially "out" about it, but I have told my mom and friends about it, and my boyfriend is super sweet and understanding. He's very respectful of my boundaries. I felt kind of awkward posting a topic on it, since I don't know anyone else here who identities as demi, but who knows, maybe there's more people on here than I realize who identifies as demi or ace. That said, if anyone else is ace, demi, gray, ect, I would like to hear it! Even if you don't fall under the ace-spec identities, i would love to hear if anyone else is coming out during pride month!

Seawolf
#42968

Posted 2023-08-04 20:43:08 (edited)
Congrats on figuring that out! I'm also somewhere on the ace-spec, so it's nice to see another proud aspec person! 

ElectroSwing 💞
#43082

Posted 2023-08-16 22:50:08
Hey, congrats!! It's always so relieving and enlightening when you finally find what labels work for you. :> I've known I'm ace-spec for a long long while now and I always love seeing other people come to love their identities! Other than that, I'm still trying to figure out the romantic side of things |D
lowyatar
#122082

Posted 2023-08-19 18:48:57
I also recently realized I'm demi! it felt very much like "ohhhhh that makes sense" to me. although im also hetero -romantic so i feel very allo-passing and when coming out no one really batted an eye lol. sometimes I explain it like "well id like to hold hand with a boy but not much else"

Silverrfire
#2817

Posted 2023-08-26 10:37:42
I'm late to the party, but congratulations! I'm greyromantic ace myself, it's always nice to see people figuring themselves out :)

Zangetsu of the Shire
#118594

Posted 2023-10-30 17:12:22
Late response, but I'm also demi :D. Demiromantic homoromantic asexual to be specific.

GaySatan (on hiatus)
#58442

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